Should we break up?

An honest relationship quiz

Should you stay in this relationship, or is it time to go? Twenty-nine questions across four phases — safety, why you're asking, six relationship dimensions, and an honest pulse. About ten minutes.

Pattern-based, drawing on John Gottman's research, Mira Kirshenbaum's diagnostics, and emotionally focused therapy. You get a clear read of the signals and a recommended next step — never a glib "stay" or "leave" verdict. Free and anonymous; answers never leave your browser.

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